FAQs

What is the purpose of the Fourth Dimension Fellowship Conference (“FDF Conference”)?

The handful of gentlemen planning this conference believe that one of the biggest challenges facing gay men in recovery is the challenge of developing meaningful relationships and communication skills with other members of our community.  In an era of social media and dating apps on our phones, this challenge is made all the more difficult.  Accordingly, this conference is anchored by two goals; (1) developing meaningful connections with members of the sober gay community and (2) development of our working knowledge of the 12 Steps of Alcoholics and, particularly our ability to “practice these principles in all of our affairs,” including, the way we interact with each other.

What is the purpose of the Fourth Dimension Fellowship Conference (“FDF Conference”)?

The handful of gentlemen planning this conference believe that one of the biggest challenges facing gay men in recovery is the challenge of developing meaningful relationships and communication skills with other members of our community.  In an era of social media and dating apps on our phones, this challenge is made all the more difficult.  Accordingly, this conference is anchored by two goals; (1) developing meaningful connections with members of the sober gay community and (2) development of our working knowledge of the 12 Steps of Alcoholics and, particularly our ability to “practice these principles in all of our affairs,” including, the way we interact with each other.

I have heard that no phones can be used during the FDF Conference?

The success of the FDF Conference depends upon the embrace, by all of us, of the purpose and goals described in answer to the prior question.  We believe that our phones, while a powerful way to communicate and make our lives more efficient, also serve as a barrier to truly connect with our friends and fellows.  Accordingly, we will be asking participants to refrain from using their phones during FDF Conference events, including the banquet and workshops, and will be encouraging all of us to try to avoid using our phones while interacting with members of our fellowship.  Obviously, we will not be “policing” this request, nor would we ever impose a rule regarding phones.  That said, we request that all participants respect this request, out of respect for our fellow conference participants who wish to take full advantage of this experiment of developing community without the crutch of a screen!

When is the Fourth Dimension Fellowship Conference?

September 11-13, 2020

How can I register?

Registration will open at Sunday Feb. 23rd @ 12:00 pm.

There is a wait-list option if the tickets sell out. You may also join the mailing list before April 1st to be notified when they go up for sale.

If tickets are not available, you will see the waitlist option on the registration page and if spots come available, everyone on the waitlist will be notified.

If I am registered and wish to cancel my registration, when is the last date to do so, and how do I accomplish this?

The last date to cancel registration is August 11, 2020.  If you wish to cancel, contact us and advise of your plans.

If I wish to transfer my registration to another person, when is the last date to do so, and how do I accomplish this?

The last date to transfer a registration is August 11th, 2020.  If you wish to transfer your registration, please contact us and advise of your plans.  In this email, please provide contact information for the person to whom you wish to transfer your registration.  Please note, you will not receive a refund if you transfer.  Instead, your registration fee will be credited to the person to whom you have transferred your registration.

Where should I stay during the conference?

The conference will be take place at the Indian Wells Resort Hotel.  If the Hotel sells out that weekend, we have obtained nearby alternatives with comparable room rates.  If you are registered, you will receive an email notification when the hotel reservation lines open.

You may also connect with your Fourth Dimension Fellowship Hotel Liaison with any questions you may have.

What is the purpose of the Fourth Dimension Fellowship Conference (“FDF Conference”)?

The handful of gentlemen planning this conference believe that one of the biggest challenges facing gay men in recovery is the challenge of developing meaningful relationships and communication skills with other members of our community.  In an era of social media and dating apps on our phones, this challenge is made all the more difficult.  Accordingly, this conference is anchored by two goals; (1) developing meaningful connections with members of the sober gay community and (2) development of our working knowledge of the 12 Steps of Alcoholics and, particularly our ability to “practice these principles in all of our affairs,” including, the way we interact with each other.

How many conference participants can stay in one room?

Rooms can hold up to four guests. However, no one may stay in a room at the host hotel unless that person is registered as a conference participant.

Do any meals come with my hotel registration?

Yes.  Breakfast is included for guests staying at the hotel and registered at the conference.  Vouchers will be provided when you check in.  All conference participants not staying at the hotel are permitted to also eat at the restaurant at their own expense.

All registered conference participants receive dinner at the Saturday evening banquet.

May I transfer my hotel registration to another conference participant?

Unfortunately, no.  Hotel reservations cannot be transferred.  If you elect to cancel or transfer your registration to the conference, you must contact the hotel directly to cancel your reservation.  If you do not cancel your hotel registration after canceling or transferring your Conference registration, the hotel may charge you for the room.  By canceling your hotel reservation, you will free up a room for another member of the fellowship who has not yet been able to locate lodging.

Is there parking during the conference?

Yes. The hotel has plenty of parking available, whether you are staying at the hotel or not.

My partner is not in recovery. May he attend the conference?

Yes, partners may attend. They must also register.

How can I find a roommate?

The FDF Facebook page (a private page to protect anonymity) allows communication between members.  Feel free to post on the page regarding roommate requests or other FDF related business.  If you would like to join the Facebook page, please contact us and ask to join.

Will a schedule of events be made available prior to the Conference weekend?

Yes.  We will post the schedule on this website in advance of the conference!

How do I request a refund?

We at FDF understand that sometimes plans change and you may not able to attend after registering. If you wish to request a registration refunded, please complete and submit the form on this page. FDF will honor all refund requests received before August 11, 2020. Although we will endeavor to credit your account within 7 days, depending on your bank’s processing time it can take anywhere from 5-10 business days to post to your account. Please note, your refund will be your registration fee minus the 3.05% merchant fee.  We reserve the right to complete the refund process 30 days from your request.

Please note, cancelling your FDF registration online does not complete the cancelation of your Indian Wells Resort hotel room reservation. This must be done directly through the host hotel at 866-468-9507.